Sahih Al-Bukhari — Hadith #5080
Hadith #5080
حَدَّثَنَا آدَمُ، حَدَّثَنَا شُعْبَةُ، حَدَّثَنَا مُحَارِبٌ، قَالَ سَمِعْتُ جَابِرَ بْنَ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ، رضى الله عنهما يَقُولُ تَزَوَّجْتُ فَقَالَ لِي رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم " مَا تَزَوَّجْتَ ". فَقُلْتُ تَزَوَّجْتُ ثَيِّبًا. فَقَالَ " مَا لَكَ وَلِلْعَذَارَى وَلِعَابِهَا ". فَذَكَرْتُ ذَلِكَ لِعَمْرِو بْنِ دِينَارٍ فَقَالَ عَمْرٌو سَمِعْتُ جَابِرَ بْنَ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ يَقُولُ قَالَ لِي رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم " هَلاَّ جَارِيَةً تُلاَعِبُهَا وَتُلاَعِبُكَ ".
When I got married, Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said to me, "What type of lady have you married?" I replied, "I
have married a matron' He said, "Why, don't you have a liking for the virgins and for fondling them?"
Jabir also said: Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said, "Why didn't you marry a young girl so that you might play with
her and she with you?'
Narrated by
Jabir ibn Abdullah (RA)
Source
Sahih Al-Bukhari # 67/5080
Grade
Sahih
Category
Chapter 67: Wedlock, Marriage (Nikaah)