Ash-Shama'il Al-Muhammadiyah — Hadith #47984

Hadith #47984
حَدَّثَنَا عَلِيُّ بْنُ حُجْرٍ، قَالَ‏:‏ حَدَّثَنَا عِيسَى بْنُ يُونُسَ، عَنْ هِشَامِ بْنِ عُرْوَةَ، عَنِ أَخِيهِ عَبْدِ اللهِ بْنِ عُرْوَةَ، عَنْ عُرْوَةَ، عَنْ عَائِشَةَ، قَالَتْ‏:‏ جَلَسَتْ إِحْدَى عَشْرَةَ امْرَأَةً فَتَعَاهَدْنَ وَتَعَاقَدْنَ أَنْ لا يَكْتُمْنَ مِنْ أَخْبَارِ أَزْوَاجِهِنَّ شَيْئًا‏:‏ فَقَالَتِ الأُولَى‏:‏ زَوْجِي لَحْمُ جَمَلٍ غَثٍّ عَلَى رَأْسِ جَبَلٍ وَعْرٍ، لا سَهْلٌ فَيُرْتَقَى، وَلا سَمِينٌ فَيُنْتَقَلُ قَالَتِ الثَّانِيَةُ‏:‏ زَوْجِي لا أَبُثُّ خَبَرَهُ، إِنِّي أَخَافُ أَنْ لا أَذَرَهُ، إِنْ أَذْكُرْهُ أَذْكُرْ عُجَرَهُ، وَبُجَرَهُ قَالَتِ الثَّالِثَةُ‏:‏ زَوْجِي الْعَشَنَّقُ، إِنْ أَنْطِقْ أُطَلَّقْ، وَإِنْ أَسْكُتْ أُعَلَّقْ قَالَتِ الرَّابِعَةُ‏:‏ زَوْجِي كَلَيْلِ تِهَامَةَ، لا حَرٌّ، وَلا قُرٌّ، وَلا مَخَافَةَ، وَلا سَآمَةَ قَالَتِ الْخَامِسَةُ‏:‏ زَوْجِي إِنْ دَخَلَ فَهِدَ، وَإِنْ خَرَجَ أَسِدَ، وَلا يَسْأَلُ عَمَّا عَهِدَ قَالَتِ السَّادِسَةُ‏:‏ زَوْجِي إِنْ أَكَلَ لَفَّ، وَإِنْ شَرِبَ اشْتَفَّ، وَإِنِ اضْطَجَعَ الْتَفَّ، وَلا يُولِجُ الْكَفَّ، لِيَعْلَمَ الْبَثَّ قَالَتِ السَّابِعَةُ‏:‏ زَوْجِي عَيَايَاءُ، أَوْ غَيَايَاءُ طَبَاقَاءُ، كُلُّ دَاءٍ لَهُ دَاءٌ، شَجَّكِ، أَوْ فَلَّكِ، أَوْ جَمَعَ كُلا لَكِ قَالَتِ الثَّامِنَةُ‏:‏ زَوْجِي الْمَسُّ، مَسُّ أَرْنَبٍ وَالرِّيحُ، رِيحُ زَرْنَبٍ قَالَتِ التَّاسِعَةُ‏:‏ زَوْجِي رَفِيعُ الْعِمَادِ، طَوِيلُ النِّجَادِ عَظِيمُ الرَّمَادِ، قَرِيبُ الْبَيْتِ مِنَ النَّادِ قَالَتِ الْعَاشِرَةُ‏:‏ زَوْجِي مَالِكٌ، وَمَا مَالِكٌ مَالِكٌ خَيْرٌ مِنْ ذَلِكِ، لَهُ إِبِلٌ كَثِيرَاتُ الْمَبَارِكِ، قَلِيلاتُ الْمَسَارِحِ، إِذَا سَمِعْنَ صَوْتَ الْمِزْهَرِ، أَيْقَنَّ أَنَّهُنَّ هَوَالِكُ قَالَتِ الْحَادِيَةَ عَشْرَةَ‏:‏ زَوْجِي أَبُو زَرْعٍ وَمَا أَبُو زَرْعٍ‏؟‏ أَنَاسَ مِنْ حُلِيٍّ أُذُنَيَّ، وَمَلأَ مِنْ شَحْمٍ عَضُدَيَّ، وَبَجَّحَنِي، فَبَجَحَتْ إِلَيَّ نَفْسِي، وَجَدَنِي فِي أَهْلِ غُنَيْمَةٍ بِشَقٍّ فَجَعَلَنِي فِي أَهْلِ صَهِيلٍ، وَأَطِيطٍ وَدَائِسٍ وَمُنَقٍّ، فَعِنْدَهُ أَقُولُ، فَلا أُقَبَّحُ، وَأَرْقُدُ، فَأَتَصَبَّحُ، وَأَشْرَبُ، فَأَتَقَمَّحُ، أُمُّ أَبِي زَرْعٍ فَمَا أُمُّ أَبِي زَرْعٍ، عُكُومُهَا رَدَاحٌ، وَبَيْتُهَا فَسَاحٌ، ابْنُ أَبِي زَرْعٍ، فَمَا ابْنُ أَبِي زَرْعٍ، مَضْجَعُهُ كَمَسَلِّ شَطْبَةٍ، وَتُشْبِعُهُ ذِرَاعُ الْجَفْرَةِ، بِنْتُ أَبِي زَرْعٍ، فَمَا بِنْتُ أَبِي زَرْعٍ، طَوْعُ أَبِيهَا وَطَوْعُ أُمِّهَا، مِلْءُ كِسَائِهَا، وَغَيْظُ جَارَتِهَا، جَارِيَةُ أَبِي زَرْعٍ، فَمَا جَارِيَةُ أَبِي زَرْعٍ، لا تَبُثُّ حَدِيثَنَا تَبْثِيثًا، وَلا تُنَقِّثُ مِيرَتَنَا تَنْقِيثًا، وَلا تَمْلأُ بَيْتَنَا تَعْشِيشًا، قَالَتْ‏:‏ خَرَجَ أَبُو زَرْعٍ، وَالأَوْطَابُ تُمْخَضُ، فَلَقِيَ امْرَأَةً مَعَهَا وَلَدَانِ لَهَا، كَالْفَهْدَيْنِ، يَلْعَبَانِ مِنْ تَحْتِ خَصْرِهَا بِرُمَّانَتَيْنِ، فَطَلَّقَنِي وَنَكَحَهَا، فَنَكَحْتُ بَعْدَهُ رَجُلا سَرِيًّا، رَكِبَ شَرِيًّا، وَأَخَذَ خَطِّيًّا، وَأَرَاحَ عَلَيَّ نَعَمًا ثَرِيًّا، وَأَعْطَانِي مِنْ كُلِّ رَائِحَةٍ زَوْجًا، وَقَالَ‏:‏ كُلِي أُمَّ زَرْعٍ، وَمِيرِي أَهْلَكِ، فَلَوْ جَمَعْتُ كُلَّ شَيْءٍ أَعْطَانِيهِ، مَا بَلَغَ أَصْغَرَ آنِيَةِ أَبِي زَرْعٍ قَالَتْ عَائِشَةُ‏:‏ فَقَالَ لِي رَسُولُ اللهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم‏:‏ كُنْتُ لَكِ كَأَبِي زَرْعٍ لأُمِّ زَرْعٍ‏.‏
Ali bin Hajar told us, he said: Issa bin Yunus told us, on the authority of Hisham bin Urwa, on the authority of his brother Abdullah bin Urwa, on the authority of Urwa, On the authority of Aisha, she said: Eleven women sat down and pledged and agreed not to conceal anything from their husbands: so she said The first: My husband is the meat of a thorny camel on the top of a rugged mountain. He is neither easy to ascend nor fat to be moved. The second said: I do not share news about my husband. I am afraid that I will not spare him. If I mention him, I will mention his lameness. And because of his calamity, the third woman said: My husband is the annoyance. If I speak, I will let him go. If I keep silent, I will let him go. Hang up. The fourth said: My husband is like the night of Tihama, neither heat, nor cold, nor fear, nor boredom. The fifth said: My husband, if a leopard enters, And if a lion goes out, and he is not asked about what he agreed with, the sixth said: My husband, if he eats, he will wrap himself, and if he drinks, he will be relieved, and if he lies down, he will wrap himself around, and he will not insert himself. Al-Kuff, so that the broadcast may be known. The seventh said: My husband is ill, or Ghaya’a, Tabaqa’. Every disease has a disease, Shajak, or Falak, or the plural of both. To you, the eighth said: My husband touched, he touched a rabbit and the wind, the smell of a grape. The ninth said: My husband is of high standing, long-suffering. Great ashes, the house is close to the club. The tenth said: My husband is a landlord, and no landlord is better than that. He has many blessed camels. When they heard the voice of the muzhar, they would be certain that they were doomed. The eleventh woman said: “My husband is the father of a plant, and he is not the father of Planting? Among the people of Saheel, and the one who tramples, and the one who purifies, then with him I say, and I do not ugl, and I lie down, and then I wake up, and I drink, and I bleed, and my father’s mother is a crop What is the mother of Abi Zara’? Her household is spacious and her house is spacious. Ibn Abi Zara’ is not the son of Abi Zara’. His bed is like a flat bed, and she satisfies him. Dhurat al-Jafra, the daughter of my father Zar’, so what is the daughter of my father Zar’, obeying her father and obeying her mother, filling her clothes, and angering her neighbour, my father’s maid? A plant, a mouth Abu Zar’a’s maid, she does not spread our conversation widely, nor cleanse our living room, nor fill our house with comfort. She said: Abu Zar’a went out. While the bricks were churning, he found a woman with two young boys, like two leopards, playing with pomegranates under her waist, so he divorced me and married her. So I married a secret man after him. He rode on a horse, took a sin, and bestowed rich blessings upon me, and gave me a pair of every scent, and said: I am all a mother. Agriculture, and my family’s wealth. If I gathered everything, he would give it to me. It would not have reached the smallest of Abu Zara’s utensils. Aisha said: Then the Messenger of God said to me: God, may God bless him and grant him peace: I was to you like the father of a seed to the mother of a seed.
Narrated by
Aisha (RA)
Source
Ash-Shama'il Al-Muhammadiyah # 38/252
Grade
Sahih
Category
Chapter 38: Chapter 38
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