Mishkat al-Masabih — Hadith #48918

And on the authority of Anas, he said: The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, passed by a woman crying at a grave, and he said: “Fear God and be patient.” She said: Stay away from me, for you have not She was afflicted with my calamity and did not know him, so she was told: He is the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace. So she came to the door of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace She did not find any gatekeepers with him, so she said: I did not know you. He said: “Patience is only at the first shock.”