Bulugh al-Maram — Hadith #53077
Hadith #53077
وَلَهُ شَاهِدٌ : عِنْدَ اَلتِّرْمِذِيِّ , وَالنَّسَائِيِّ ; عَنِ الْمُغِيرَةِ. 1 .1 - صحيح . ولفظه : عن المغيرة بن شعبة - رضي الله عنه- قال : "خطبت امرأة ، فقال لي رسول الله -صلى الله عليه وسلم- : " أنظرت إليها ؟ " قال : قلت : لا . قال : " انظر إليها ؛ فإنه أحرى أن يؤدم بينكما" . فأتيتها وعندها أبواها ، وهي في خدرها . فقلت : إن رسول الله -صلى الله عليه وسلم- أمرني أن أنظر إليها ؟ قال : فسكتا . قال : فرفعت الجارية جانب الخدر . فقالت : أحرج عليك إن كان رسول الله -صلى الله عليه وسلم- أمرك أن تنظر إلي لما نظرت ، وإن كان رسول الله -صلى الله عليه وسلم- لم يأمر أن تنظر إلي فلا تنظر . قلت : ولتخريجه انظر " الأحكام المطلوبة".
It has a deedial: according to Al-Tirmidhi and Al-Nasai. under the control of Al-Mughira. 1.1 - Sahih. The word of Al-Mughirah bin Shubah is pleasing to him - Allah is pleased with him: "I have engaged to a woman, and the Messenger of Allah said to me: "Have you looked at him?" He said, "No. He said, "Look at him, it is better to have peace in you there." So I went to him and his parents were with him, when he was in his room. I said, "May Allah bless him and give him peace, did He command me to look at him?" He said, "They were silent. He said, "Then the maid lifted up the house and said, "If I am ashamed of you, Allah will give him peace, and when I look at him, he commands you to look at me, and if Allah gives him peace, and if Allah does not command you to look at me, do not look at me." I said, "For an explanation, look at the "required law."
Narrated by
Ibn Masud (RA)
Source
Bulugh al-Maram # 8/975
Category
Chapter 8: Chapter 8