Riyad as-Salihin — Hadith #46625
Hadith #46625
وعن همام بن الحارث، عن المقداد، رضي الله عنه أم رجلا جعل يمدح عثمان رضي الله عنه ، فعمد المقداد، فجثا على ركبتيه، فجعل يحثو في وجهه الحصباء، فقال له عثمان: ما شأنك؟ فقال: إن رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم قال: “إذا رأيتم المادحين، فاحثوا في وجوههم التراب" ((رواه مسلم)).
فهذه الأحاديث في النهي، وجاء في الإباحة أحاديث كثيرة صحيحة.
قال العلماء: وطريق الجمع بين الأحاديث أن يقال: إن كان الممدوح عنده كمال إيمان ويقين، ورياضة نفس، ومعرفة تامة بحيث لا يفتن، ولا يغتر بذلك، ولا تلعب به نفسه، فليس بحرام ولا مكروه، وإن خيف عليه شيء من هذه الأمور، كره مدحه في وجهه كراهة شديدة، وعلى هذا التفصيل تنزل الأحاديث المختلفة في ذلك. ومما جاء في الإباحة قوله صلى الله عليه وسلم لأبي بكر رضي الله عنه: “أرجو أن تكون منهم" أي من الذين يُدعون من جميع أبواب الجنة لدخولها، وفي الحديث الآخر: "لست منهم" أي: لست من الذين يُسبلون أُزرهم خيلاء. وقال صلى الله عليه وسلم لعمر رضي الله عنه: “ما رآك الشيطان سالكًا فجًا إلا سلك فجًا غير فجك” والأحاديث في الإباحة كثيرة، وقد ذكرت جملة من أطرافها في كتاب: "الأذكار".
On the authority of Hammam bin Al-Harith, on the authority of Al-Miqdad, may God be pleased with him, the mother of a man who started praising Uthman, may God be pleased with him. So Al-Miqdad baptized, and he knelt down and began to rub gravel in his face. Uthman said to him: What is your business? He said: The Messenger of God, may God’s prayers and peace be upon him, said: “If you see those praising people, throw dust in their faces.” (Narrated by Muslim). These hadiths contain prohibitions, and there are many hadiths regarding permissibility Correct. The scholars said: The way to combine the hadiths is to say: If the one being praised has perfect faith, certainty, self-control, and complete knowledge such that he is not tempted, nor is he deceived by it, nor is he playing with himself, then it is not forbidden or objectionable, and if one of these matters is feared for him, he strongly dislikes praising him to his face, and based on this detail the various hadiths regarding that are revealed. Among the permissibility is his statement, may God bless him and grant him peace, to Ubayy. Bakr, may God be pleased with him, said: “I hope that you will be one of them,” that is, one of those who are called upon from all gates of Paradise to enter it, and in the other hadith: “I am not one of them,” meaning: I am not one of those who let down their loins out of arrogance. And he, may God’s prayers and peace be upon him, said to Omar, may God be pleased with him: “Satan never saw you walking in a rude way except that he walked in a way other than yours.” The hadiths regarding permissibility are many, and a sentence was mentioned. From its edges in the book: “Remembrances”.
Narrated by
Hammam bin Al Harith (RA)
Source
Riyad as-Salihin # 17/1790
Grade
Sahih
Category
Chapter 17: Chapter 17