Jami' at-Tirmidhi — Hadith #27321
Hadith #27321
حَدَّثَنَا الْحَسَنُ بْنُ عَلِيٍّ الْخَلاَّلُ، حَدَّثَنَا الْحُسَيْنُ بْنُ عَلِيٍّ الْجُعْفِيُّ، عَنْ زَائِدَةَ، عَنْ شَبِيبِ بْنِ غَرْقَدَةَ، عَنْ سُلَيْمَانَ بْنِ عَمْرِو بْنِ الأَحْوَصِ، قَالَ حَدَّثَنِي أَبِي أَنَّهُ، شَهِدَ حَجَّةَ الْوَدَاعِ مَعَ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم فَحَمِدَ اللَّهَ وَأَثْنَى عَلَيْهِ وَذَكَّرَ وَوَعَظَ فَذَكَرَ فِي الْحَدِيثِ قِصَّةً فَقَالَ " أَلاَ وَاسْتَوْصُوا بِالنِّسَاءِ خَيْرًا فَإِنَّمَا هُنَّ عَوَانٌ عِنْدَكُمْ لَيْسَ تَمْلِكُونَ مِنْهُنَّ شَيْئًا غَيْرَ ذَلِكَ إِلاَّ أَنْ يَأْتِينَ بِفَاحِشَةٍ مُبَيِّنَةٍ فَإِنْ فَعَلْنَ فَاهْجُرُوهُنَّ فِي الْمَضَاجِعِ وَاضْرِبُوهُنَّ ضَرْبًا غَيْرَ مُبَرِّحٍ فَإِنْ أَطَعْنَكُمْ فَلاَ تَبْغُوا عَلَيْهِنَّ سَبِيلاً أَلاَ إِنَّ لَكُمْ عَلَى نِسَائِكُمْ حَقًّا وَلِنِسَائِكُمْ عَلَيْكُمْ حَقًّا فَأَمَّا حَقُّكُمْ عَلَى نِسَائِكُمْ أَلاَّ يُوطِئْنَ فُرُشَكُمْ مَنْ تَكْرَهُونَ وَلاَ يَأْذَنَّ فِي بُيُوتِكُمْ لِمَنْ تَكْرَهُونَ أَلاَ وَحَقُّهُنَّ عَلَيْكُمْ أَنْ تُحْسِنُوا إِلَيْهِنَّ فِي كِسْوَتِهِنَّ وَطَعَامِهِنَّ " . قَالَ أَبُو عِيسَى هَذَا حَدِيثٌ حَسَنٌ صَحِيحٌ . وَمَعْنَى قَوْلِهِ " عَوَانٌ عِنْدَكُمْ " . يَعْنِي أَسْرَى فِي أَيْدِيكُمْ .
Al-Hasan bin Ali Al-Khalal narrated to us, Al-Hussein bin Ali Al-Jafi narrated to us, on the authority of Zaida, on the authority of Shabib bin Gharqada, on the authority of Suleiman bin Amr Ibn Al-Ahwas, he said, my father told me that he witnessed the Farewell Pilgrimage with the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, and he thanked God and praised him and mentioned He preached and mentioned a story in the hadith, where he said, “Do not treat women well, for they are your helpers, and of them you do not possess anything other than That is, unless they commit a clear indecency, and if they do, leave them alone in their beds and beat them severely, not severely. obey you, so do not seek a way from them. Indeed, you have a right over your women, and your women have a right over you. As for your right over your women, that they should not have sexual intercourse. Spouse with those whom you dislike, and do not allow those whom you dislike into your homes, except that their right upon you is that you do good to them in Their clothing and food. Abu Issa said: This is a good and authentic hadith. The meaning of his saying is “a helper with you.” It means Prisoners in your hands...
Narrated by
Sulaiman bin Amr bin al-Ahwas (RA)
Source
Jami' at-Tirmidhi # 12/1163
Grade
Hasan
Category
Chapter 12: The Book on Suckling